tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967976539665781662.post6445255880950067247..comments2023-10-29T05:12:09.716-04:00Comments on SavageTalonsMedia: Who's Fault Is It?Pito Savage and Rick Talonshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15278807926301220024noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967976539665781662.post-15886051648850128262010-08-08T09:49:53.092-04:002010-08-08T09:49:53.092-04:00You guys are doing Extraordinary things with this ...You guys are doing Extraordinary things with this blog. Much more than you're aware ! Kudos, guys ! Kudos !!CManArthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03498394276116294048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967976539665781662.post-32777106346200980612010-08-07T02:47:50.309-04:002010-08-07T02:47:50.309-04:00@ Bill. All I can say is WOW and Thanks for your ...@ Bill. All I can say is WOW and Thanks for your post man. So Well Said man!Pito Savage and Rick Talonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15278807926301220024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967976539665781662.post-76441278876010563442010-08-06T15:05:27.783-04:002010-08-06T15:05:27.783-04:00@Kitt.
I don't believe the root of the problem...@Kitt.<br />I don't believe the root of the problem is a lack of education, though education and knowledge is essential. I feel the problem stems from the heart - a lack of compassion, love, thinking of more than yourself. We all need to make a living, we all are searching for love and meaning. But in this journey of life we have to remember to give and be considerate of others. We should learn to be good stewards of our fellow men and women. <br />Too often in our society everything is reduced down to the quest for the brass ring. I find this to be a sad and meaningless pursuit. Because, paradoxically, only through giving of ourselves do we truly receive. <br />What does this have to do with not revealing ones HIV status? Everything.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967976539665781662.post-1042411262427511702010-08-06T14:46:40.145-04:002010-08-06T14:46:40.145-04:00I lost my best friend last year to AIDS. He kept i...I lost my best friend last year to AIDS. He kept it to himself until the very end - didn't tell me, his family or another friends as far as I know. I have been working through the anger and sadness of all of this since his passing. <br />I know coming out as gay, HIV positive, etc. is tough and so many in our community have been in the habit of lies, deceit, subterfuge - you name it - to the point it becomes a lifestyle. All stemming from fear of facing who we really are.<br />I know it is a cruel world where people will ostracize, discriminate, beat or even kill those who are different. But we need to gather the courage within ourselves to live our lives honestly and with love and not fear.<br />And we all need to encourage others to do so by accepting each other as we truly are.<br />I realize this is a very complex issue and I encourage all of us to engage in an on-going discussion. Most of all remember keeping secrets and staying in hiding is never good for anyone. Never!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967976539665781662.post-200413591656289702010-08-05T18:09:47.933-04:002010-08-05T18:09:47.933-04:00@David
Thanks man. I hate it that people lie abou...@David <br />Thanks man. I hate it that people lie about their status, but I hate it more that they feel like they have too<br /><br />@Daddy Jim<br />Well Said! We should have co-wrote that shit. wouldhave made an awesome post together. You know we luv ya too man. We will be in Florida to stay really soon and just a stones throw away.<br />Rick n PitoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967976539665781662.post-5693010410281369292010-08-05T18:06:04.977-04:002010-08-05T18:06:04.977-04:00Well said my friend. Learn and be educated about ...Well said my friend. Learn and be educated about the subject that you intend on spreading before you put your foot where your mouth is. Education is key and most people can't even get their foot in the door because they don't have it in the first place.<br /><br />Whomever the person is should be ashamed of himself for the level of intelligence he doesn't seem to possess.<br /><br />Playing Raw is Russian Roulette in itself yet, if the person knows the risk involved- who are we to judge?<br /><br />People shouldn't have to lie about their status to get the job and keep it. <br /><br />I just shake my head in wonderment. <br /><br />Let's stop being feeble-minded and get educated on it.Kitt Campbell-Vordeauxnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967976539665781662.post-58730265198494402512010-08-05T17:56:30.023-04:002010-08-05T17:56:30.023-04:00Rick..I cant believe that only one commented on th...Rick..I cant believe that only one commented on this but then again I can. Its a hot topic that no one wants to touch, talk about or even approach but Daddy J likes touching HOT men..Yeah and that's why I enjoyed touching you both. (non sexually just a FYI)<br /><br />I found it very interesting that a porn actor would be upset because someone lied about his status. I agree TOTALLY with what you wrote. There's still a stigma and discrimination on having HIV. Men are STILL shunned. We tend to forget there are OTHER Sexually transmitted diseases out there as bad if not worse than HIV.<br /><br />I believe that because of this the model felt compelled to lie, wrong as it was. Being a single guy, and a top, I often have guys lie about their status; wanting me to fuck them raw and shoot up into them and I CAN sympathize with<br />that. Who wants to admit to someone he just met that's he's HIV positive ESPECIALLY since hes likely been rejected before? Does it make it right, OF course not. HOWEVER, I take the proper precautions WITHOUT me having to ask them directly BECAUSE I EDUCATED MYSELF. Some men choose to tell me others don't and that's ok. I am MUCH more afraid of Hep C than HIV. Men also need to be educated about being UNDETECTABLE HIV. I PERSONALLY have been involved with men who were undetectable that I HAVE fucked raw and I am still negative. I EMPHASIZE that I KNOW these guys and have had relationships WITH them..Not a one time trick.<br />I use protection ALL the time with one shot men.<br /><br />I hate using the term, "it was this ones fault" or "that ones fault." Taking someones word on their status that you don't know just to get into a porn movie?. Ill informed choice. Anyone who lies ABOUT their status just to GET into a porn movie? Another ill informed choice. <br /><br />Bottom line here. We have to BEGIN to love ourselves AND each other AS WE ARE; taking care OF each other and having each others best interest at heart. When we TRULY put each other in the equation and NOT just self cherishing what WE want and what WE need and what WE think, there will be no more reason to hide and lie. <br /><br />One last thing.. to my porn boys..This Daddy Loves you both..Jim Demitrioshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04347478295651447417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967976539665781662.post-12839694448946742582010-08-05T17:27:07.598-04:002010-08-05T17:27:07.598-04:00I have just read this blog and I am in full suppor...I have just read this blog and I am in full support of this, we all as men have to be careful when we are out there. In life we do not know when we get an STD or HIV so in this blog we need to use protection and we need the education so we can see the sign. If guys want to dance with danger then it is their choice but for me I will be safe always and I will read and have the education in my mind and I never go against my principles ever and I will stay safe always.David Scottnoreply@blogger.com