The Movers Are Gone!

The Movers have cum and gone - Pito and I are sitting in an empty house.  We kept an old Queen size bed for us to sleep on, I have my PC and Pito has a Brand New Lap Top that he is playing with at this very moment.  We have an old TV that's picture is so dark and green its really hard to see, a small space heater and of course the cat and dog are all camped out in one little room in the house.  We have 2 more days here in Indy before we are heading to the Orlando area - and not a moment too soon, we had our first snow fall today ( I was really happy to see it snow before we left, I think it's pretty and gonna miss it).


At any rate we are finally on our way to Florida and closer to making this all happen.  Things are Getting Better and on that note I wanna show luv to C'Man for his contribution to the It Get Better Compaign.  As you know Pito and I are big fans of C'Man's work and hope you check out his blog for some Hot Drawings!

http://cmanart.blogspot.com/?zx=57167ad19698415d

Suicide : I Have A Story

As most of you remember, Oct. 20, 2010 was  In memory of the recent suicides due to anti-gay bullying.  A lot of us changed our Photo for the day to Purple and that was it - sad to say that's all I've done to contribute to the cause.  A few days later I stumbled across this from a guy on facebook - Del'Antonio Knucklehead James  .  I have to say, I don't know this dude personally but I do have his premission to share this video in hopes that it may help just one person.  He tells me he has more videos but in the madness that has been our lives lately I haven't or to be more honest haven't taken the time to look at any others.  But this Video really got me and I wish this or something like this had been around when I was growing up. 

Pito's Pulled a Rabbit Outta the Hat.

Thank you for all your good thoughts guys.

As some of you might have guessed, the past few months have really taken it's toll on us.  I hung in as long as I could, but the past few weeks I just didn't have any fight left in me.  But Pito wouldn't stop until he found us a nice house.

Today was a very good day all the way around.  Pito just would not take no for an answer and long after I had given up - He found Us a House.

Here's a couple quick shots of the place - yes I edited the house numbers.  LOL

I can't wait to fuck out here!!!

Asking You All.......

Depending on your beliefs; Pray, Think Good Thoughts, or Send some Good Energy Pito's way.

The stress has been aweful on him the past several months and even though many things have cleared up for him, he still has a long road. I know this ruff patch has been hard on him and he's wearing down from the pressure. I've been beat for weeks, so I'm little to no help spiritly...

Rick Talons

Anti-Gay Bullying

October 20, 2010: In memory of the recent suicides due to anti-gay bullying, wear purple.

This is really funny to me.

I have someone on my facebook friends list who I don't think I've ever spoken too past the first thanks for adding me whatever.  I have a lot of people on my list who I hardly ever speak too, as you all know we kinda went  crazy adding people when we first joined fb.  At any rate, I really dont pay a whole lot of attention to the dudes page unless he adds a pic or something.  But last week this caught my eye, I was saving it for another post - but with this topic so charged up I'll share this now....


"I'm really not racist so why don't I have more white people as friends on my facebook?
Help me out send me suggestions of some of your non black friends that will add me."
 
 
Now of course I'm not going to show this persons name, and at first seeing this I laughed to myself and instantly went to remove him from my list.  But then I got this thought, I really wish I was a professor or some shit so I'd know how to put this on a graph. 
 
Of course I don't know just how many have been added, but the number of wht people who have been added to this dudes friends list is too funny to me.  All I've seen the last week or so is several white men falling prey to this mans trap.
 
Now this is a good looking bruh and I'd really have to guess that the majority of the people who he's recently added he wouldn't even go outta his way to piss on if they were on fire, I imagine I'm also one of them....
 
I don't know this dude as I said, but I can't help but wonder how he does not see just how racist this statement is and how racist he comes off to the people who are actually smart enough to see this for what it is. 

I just have to share this, so many people caught up with race issues...

Not Black Enough !? SERIOUSLY !!??!!


.by Calvin Washington on Saturday, October 16, 2010 at 1:01am.
Wasn't sure about posting this, but WTF !! If one more person...No, make that one more BLACK person whom I DON'T EVEN KNOW walks up to me & tells me I don't "...act black enough !" , I'm gonna possibly commit my first Homicide !! My Skin Tone & Facial features are Race Specific enough that, despite the diversity of my lineage, I can legitimately be called African-American, although, since I didn't immigrate , but was BORN HERE, I consider myself An AMERICAN ! But, back to the Point ! The way I Talk, Act, Think, Dress, Live, whatever IS the Way a Black Man Acts ! It is the Way THIS Particular Black Man, Mr. Calvin 'CMan' Washington, Acts !! And I am NOT on this planet to fit ANYBODY'S pre-determined definition regarding how to be Black, be Gay or anything else ! So, to those reading this, you need to Define me, Fine ! But if You don't like the Definition of ME ,then Hit the DELETE button, cause ya better know that I WILL and so Hard & Fast that you'll have the letter "D" permanently imprinted on your forehead !



( And I'd like to add that I'm not unaware of how this rant feeds into that Angry Black Man stereotype ! ;-)