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Friday, October 15, 2010

Prime example of being Disrespectful!!!!!

Men, I recieved a mesaage on facebook from a dude that totally flat out disrespected me and my man...... Rick made a post earlier about people puttting him downand saying things like he's lucky to have me etc......  Look let me clear the air right here right now , we are blessed to have each other, neither one of us is "lucky". People think that cause i'm a pretty big guy and Rick is not as big, that he's not good enough for me. WRONG ANSWER!!!!, DONOT DISRESPECT, what we  have.  We don't mess with no one elses relationship, please fall back on ours.......Here is just a little example of  what we just experienced and I back my man on his feeling towards this certain issue.......This one paticular dude said Rick was very lucky to have me and this is what i replied and his reply there after that :

"I appreciate the compliment but I'm the one who is very lucky. No he's not as big as me but  his heart is enormous. You'll nail your dude he out there"..........and his relply to me was:
"Why are u the lucky one? Maybe, I need to hear from you the three top attributes that make him the one? Because I don't see it. Heart is great, but there must be something else. I know plenty of amazing guys with heart, but if I cant look you it's not going to work. If you not as big as me it wont work either. So, I really want to know from your perspective. I want to learn how to keep a big strong black man. You'd think that I'd know, since Im one myself. But, I must be missing something because all the white boys got us on lock down while the brother struggle with one another LOL...

So please educate me briefly. You say that you are the lucky one. What are the top three attributes that make you say that with such briasen conviction?
I think this is pure ignorance and minute minded people.  Men do us a favor if you have a comment about either one of us  by all means say it , but do not disrespect the relationship we have with each other putting the other down cause that's not your type of man, or whatever!!!!


  1. Rick Talons this issue to us is just as big as the one where all africian american people had to sit in the back of the bus, use seperate toilets, or drinking fountains. this is real for us, we've been dealing with this since day damn 1. you have you...r causes that you hold close to your heart. this is ours.......
    until eveyone can stop looking at color and take a man for being a man, and yes that means taking the wht dick not just using the wht ass. we will be here exposing idiots evey chance we get...

  2. I agree with Pito. Respect is paramount. Love and attraction are subjective and very personal, so it is not anyone's business to understand it - just to respect it! To put it another way: would you like anyone questioning your choice in a partner? I thought not!!

  3. I'm pissed off for you & KNOW where you're coming from !! Not to tell you how to handle your business, but I'd've DELETED that Fool Then 'n' There !! WTF with some people ?! JEEEEEZ !!!!!

  4. so sorry 2 read that ... man some people just dont knoe how to be respectful -- its similar with me some people ask 4 my number or say its sex but then if i dont "give" what they want they go overboard ... i respect both u and pito and i admire the both of u 4 what u do ... dont let these idiots get the better of u however make this as a positive and this will make u2 more stronger than ever :) love/support always

  5. Rick and Pito,
    Don't let the perspective of some assholes out there get to you. That dude is an example of many that are shallow minded and feels as though whatever his personal preferences are should be ours.


    I only know you guys online but I LOVE what I see and am happy for your relationship. Most people (gay & straight relationships) can only wish/dream to have what you have.

    When I get the disrespectful type and it's someone who don't know me - I just delete them from my world. No need to go back and forth and explain who I am because from their comment - they wouldn't understand my point of view anyway. Or he/she can be one of those lonely, messy, drama filled persons out there that don't know how to get the attention that they need in a positive way.

  6. Hi Pito and Rick: As you know, that guy is so narrow-minded on so many levels that I won't go into each issue specifically, it's too overwhelming.

    If he wants to know why he "can't keep a black man", (or any man for that matter), all he needs to do is to go back and read almost every word he wrote there. The answers are right there in his questions. He's got himself "on lockdown" in so many different ways. I hope he can make the many changes he needs to make to be happy, because everyone deserves love and happiness. But they have to realize that they are often getting in their own way of finding it.